I need HELP!!?

i have a boyfriend which i really like. we have been together for over two years now. i feel like we are about to have this upcomming holiday, how do i do it?? i never had before and i really want to make it enjoyable for us both. i need help. do i give him a ********?? how would i give him one?? do i go on the top or bottom?? do i hump fast and hard, or do i hump slow and pionatly? what do i do when i drop down low?? do we listen to music?? do i go with the beat??do we go on all night, or stop here and there to give us a breather? and please none of that "let it go naturally" or "he shoould like you no matter what happens" stuff!! i really need you help!!